How can I get my boyfriend to want to be with me again? ?

What you need is Love Dare. It's a book on relationships. You do one thing everyday for 40 days for your partner/significant other to make them feel loved. I was just like you... always yelled, controlling etc., it was all about me and what I wanted in my marriage. I almost lost the best thing in the world to happen to me; my husband! I did this book and it really taught me how to put him first; and to forgive those stupid annoying habits they have that drive you up a wall without having to get into a huge argument over him changing. Instead of him changing it changed me. I am now more in love with him and he is more in love with me and ultimately that's our goal as girls to get the guy that every year you are together is another year of a much deeper love than when you started! You can find it online or in any Christian bookstore. (It is a Christian book but could be used by someone who does not believe so if they don't mind a Bible verse or two at the beginning). Hope this helps.